Showing posts with label milestone. Show all posts
Showing posts with label milestone. Show all posts

Wednesday, March 20, 2013

A milestone for Cortlan - bring on the laces!

For over a year, I have said to Cortlan, "You are going to have to learn to tie your shoes!" Last summer, I made some attempt to teach him, though admittedly, I didn't give it my all.  I would show him and help him, once or twice, here and there, but his lack of interest and attention span wasn't very motivating for me.  I figured I would try again later.

A few months ago, Cortlan got two pairs of shoes with laces.  John and I knew that we would be tying his shoe for a while, but again, we kept saying, "Cortlan, you are going to have to learn to do this yourself!"  Despite that, we never really found the time to sit down to work with him. And he didn't seem any more motivated to learn.  On our priority list, teaching him kept falling to the bottom.

Yesterday morning, however, he decided that instead of wearing the velcro shoes that he often chooses, he wanted to wear his boots that lace.

He sat down and he tied his shoes.

John and I were (and still are) astonished.  He just did it.

And when he did it again in the afternoon after gymnastics, I knew it wasn't a fluke.

So this morning, I took pictures.







He even double knotted. 

Way to go, Cortlan!  How you learned is a mystery to us, but we are proud of you!


Thursday, February 14, 2013

The coming of another milestone

Cortlan is in Kindergarten.  For many moms, Kindergarten is the big milestone.  They watch their children get on the bus on the first day and try to hide the tear or two (or many) trickling down their cheeks.  Things will never be the same, they think.

Maybe it is because Cortlan never got on a bus or maybe it is because we have continued the same routine that we had for most of his life, but Kindergarten didn't affect me in that way.  I never thought that Kindergarten would be the milestone that made me feel that there was no going back.  No.  The milestone that I anticipated would make me feel that way? When my babies loose their baby teeth.

And yesterday, at our dentist appointment, the news came - Cortlan has his first loose teeth.  Two of them.  And it won't be long before they are gone.  The baby face has already significantly changed, but will now change even more.  The little teeth with the spaces between them that mark his youth will soon be replaced with a gap and shortly thereafter filled with much larger pearly whites.  To me, this marks the change from a little guy to a boy.  And it will be those same teeth that he has when he is a man. 

Really? He only gets to keep those little teeth for six short years?

They grow too fast.